Ritual Refusal

Learning Objectives:

1. Learn how ritual refusals in Chinese serve their pragmatic functions.

2. Learn different strategies of ritually refusing to requests in Chinese.


STEP 1: Say No, Means Yes

Watch the animated video below to see how ritual refusals function in Chinese.


STEP 2: Real Life Examples

Watch the following conversations between native speakers.

Pay attention to how they ritually say “no” to requests, but actually mean “yes”.

1. Between families during a visiting occasion:

2. Between family members returning a favor:

2. Between friends during an invitation:


STEP 3: Test Yourself 

Complete the conversation quiz below. 

Ritually Refusing to Requests